Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers
Great post. Evolution is the source of many of our preferences, and I think it’s the culprit here: I can imagine there is a selection effect that prefers we get caught up in the hardscrabble day-to-day, rather than resting on our laurels. We’re hard-wired to believe that if we can just get one more promotion, one more achievement, we’ll be happy, regardless of the big picture. For me that’s why so many of us struggle to ever have enough: in times of scarcity, evolution selects those who always fight for more. There’s more to it than that, though. Humans have evolved to be self-aware: we’re able to exert meta-preferences, step back and see the big picture. Just because something is good for survival doesn’t mean it is necessarily good for a person. Taking a step back, thinking about the big picture, putting more weight on those items in our utility functions as you put it: all essential. The problem is that when bad things happen, most of us don’t step back to see the ...